In 1997-1998, I attended Western Kentucky University for a degree in meteorology. Now, 27 years later, I happily connected with 4 old friends from that time and one recent one from my paranormal books. Of course, there was a little hotel issue, but i rectified it. That's what today's blog is about.
WHY KENTUCKY? - WKU offered a 2 year degree program, with a deep concentration. Prior to that, I had degrees in radio and television, English and Business management. I had also taken all the prerequisite math courses at a community college, so I only needed the hard-core meteorology and physics courses. Within 1 1/2 years I graduated with distinction, but over that time I made some wonderful friends with whom I've always stayed in touch.
HOW DID I KEEP UP? - One of the things I love to do is send postcards. I even make my own by cutting out boxes of food items, like my Pop Tarts, cereal, protein bars, and other things. It takes 2 minutes to write a post card and it lets friends know you're thinking of them. Of course, in the late 1990s, email started to come into its own, so that became a thing. Then facebook and all kinds of social media came along, making it easier to stay in touch. Everyone I befriended also got Holiday cards to let them know where I was and what was happening.
No one that I attended school with lives in Bowling Green, Kentucky any more, but there were still friends I met in other ways.
(Photo: Rob and Frank)FRANK - We met when I attended church in Bowling Green. You know that sometimes you sit next to someone and start talking? That's what happened with us, and we became good friends. Frank is an amazing man. He's worked for a city fitness center as a Fitness Wellness Supervisor, through the Parks and Recreation division. He's also a CPT, and EMT. He teaches fitness courses, too. I was so excited to see him after all this time!
JOHN AND MARTHA - When I was living in Bowling Green, I also met John in church. In fact, I did readings for him... he was a priest, but retired and went to work in another profession. He also later met and married Martha, and together they're a spiritual, progressive powerhouse. Both are warm and wonderful and I've even connected to their cat Faith who passed.
(Photo: Kuntry Kitchen in Morgantown, Kentucky)
Since they live over 1 hour from where I was, we made plans to meet at a small restaurant in between, called Kountry Kitchen - a true Kentucky experience. John has been great at staying in touch by email over the last quarter century, and I appreciate that so much. I couldn't hug them enough, and John very much remembered Frank from church.
(Photo: Rob and Chris outside Teresa's restaurant)
CHRIS B. - When I went to school in Bowling Green, I worked part time for a cable company in the production department, and worked with Chris. I remember Chris as a very tall, wiry guy with glasses and a wry smile, who was so incredibly talented as a TV producer and photographer. It was like 27 years had not gone by. We enjoyed breakfast in a local restaurant called Teresas. It had wooden beams in the ceiling and a tile floor. It had a true rural feel, and good food.
(Photo: Rob and Chris at the Waffle House!)
CHRIS & LESLIE - A couple of years ago I did a pet spirit reading for a dog named Winnie. His parents, Chris and Leslie had several questions about Winnie and were thankfully comforted by Winnie's messages. Chris continued to stay in touch and ask great paranormal questions. I really enjoy conversing by email and when I told him about my trip, he was excited to meet me, as I was to meet him. I didn't arrive to the city until 8pm, but we met at the Waffle House and had coffee and great conversation. You never know how you'll make friends that mean so much.
(Photo: My room at the quiet Hilton, which was awesome)
HOTEL STUFF - Before the trip I booked a room for a couple of nights at the Days inn by Windham, which unfortunately was right against Interstate 65, a highly traveled Truck route between Nashville and Louisville. I slept maybe 2 hours. It was brutal. I booked through Hotel.com, and they refused to refund anything as I cancelled the other 2 nights. The people managing the hotel were nice enough, but can't do anything for 3rd party bookings.
LESSON - NEVER USE 3RD PARTY HOTEL BOOKINGS.
(Photo: It was springtime in bloom in Bowling Green, while southern Maine got snow, rain and sleet).
HOTEL SALVATION - Tom and our friend Jeff texted me and directed me to the Hilton 1 mile away from the interstate. I drove there, and booked a room. The woman at the desk, Debbie, was a kind, sweet, sympathetic southern woman, who obviously knew I hadn't slept by looking at me! So she booked me on the newly updated 4th floor with no one else on the floor. I slept from 9:30pm to 7a.m. I haven't slept that long since I was 16. The Hilton was awesome, clean and quiet and I got to work out at the nice gym (they had a pool, too, which I didn't use).
BOTTOM LINE - I missed connecting with my friend Sheryl from the cable company, but there were only 2 days and a lot of driving. Overall, the trip proves that when you make good friends, they'll always be good friends.